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Have you noticed that anytime you meet a girl for the first time, she seems to like you and then after she finds out you are a really nice guy, she doesn't want to be romantically involved with you anymore?

I call this the nice guys syndrome. So why is it a curse to be a nice guy when it comes to relationships? It may probably be too late for you if you are asking this question now. All your life, you've been the guy who never wants to hurt a fly or hurt anyone's feelings.

The female sex is genetically programmed to walk all over their male counterparts. Yes they tend to want to dominate you if you give them the chance. A lot of the time, when you think you are being nice, you are actually only being a pussy. Maybe you always do the calling instead of letting her call you, she might refuse to show up to your date and you'll say it's ok. The more you do these things for her, the more she'll expect you to do them all the time. She'll know if she does something wrong, instead of letting her know she has done the wrong thing, you'll be ok with it. To her, it's ok for you to let her push you over. Then you'll continue to whine about why she never appreciates anything you do for her. But she knows she can walk all over you and still get away with it. You should be aware that you can show a woman you love her without being her slave.

Women think of a real man as someone brave and very bold. Women like being objectified. The typical nice guy is very sensitive. They don't want to hurt the woman's feelings. But most women want a guy who can say I want to have sex with you. Nice guys will wait for the woman to initiate this and believe me, that is not going to happen in 99% of relationships. Women are attracted to the bad boy image because he is not afraid to tell her what he wants (which is her). The nice guy will do everything for the woman including even losing his house for her expecting that she'll return the favor by falling in love with him. She wants to know that you have a physical desire for her. She wants to know what you want to do to her and what you want from her.

When you are a nice guy, you are seen as a pushover by your acquaintances and she sees that as well. She notices it and her friends notice it and that increases her distaste for you the more you make a fool of yourself for her. Remember most girls take their friends opinions seriously and they don't want their friends thinking that they are in love with a pushover loser. You'll end up being the one she'll come to whenever she needs help. She'll come to tell you how someone broke her heart after she had given him the best sex. She'll never be attracted to you.

You need to shake your nice guy image. That does not mean you'll have to be an asshole to everyone you meet. You can treat a girl nice but be a man enough to let her know you don't like what she did. Be bold enough to tell her no. In dating there's no place for pushovers. In your heart, you are trying your darnedest to let her know you care. She knows you care, she just don't want to be with a pushover. So Man up.